for local:
net start {service name}
net stop {service name}
for remote:
way 1: control panel -> credential manager -> to add remote server
sc \\{remote server} start {service name}
sc \\{remote server} start {service name}
way 2: service panel -> left side -> Connect to another server
way 3: psservice.exe from the Sysinternals PSTools would also be doing the job:
psservice \\server restart service